It
is easy to imagine swapping for a vacation destination: a loft
in New York, a pied‑a‑terre in Paris, a beach house
in Florida or a ski condo in Aspen. But what if your hometown
does not immediately come to mind when vacations are being planned?
“At
first there was skepticism about who would want to come to Oklahoma,
but the answer is all sorts of people,” Atwater said. “It’s
people who realize the U.S. is more than just the East Coast
and the West Coast.”
Over
the years, she and her husband, both retired, have arranged
three exchanges through home‑swapping Web site HomeLink
International. They have gone to England twice and are planning
a trip to Virginia Beach for Easter.
Atwater
said they have had many more offers for their home, from people
living in Austria, Japan and Paris, to name a few , than they
could accommodate because the timing simply did not work out.
Sheila
Shockey, who has traded her home in Shawnee Mission, Kansas,
for stays in Hawaii and Australia and is planning a trip to
Vancouver this summer, said her midwestern location is actually
a draw. She said people are attracted to Kansas’ frontier history
and Native American sites.
Staying
in a home in a location that is not typically filled with tourists,
Shockey said, is a way to get a feel for a place and to get
to know people. Meeting locals, often neighbors or family members
of the home’s owners, can lead to a richer vacation experience.
“You
kind of get a sense of what life would be like to live there,
whereas if you were staying in a hotel in a touristy area, you
don’t get that,” Shockey said.
Mandurah,
the Australian city she and her son and mother visited on a
swap in 2005, was a suburb like their own, where her 8‑year‑old
son played with the neighbors’ kids.
Meanwhile,
back in Kansas, Shockey’s boyfriend was entertaining the Australians
in her home, taking them to see fireworks and giving them a
tour of the area’s sights.
Some
people are even surprised to learn why people want to swap with
them. Kate Blaszak, a stay‑at‑home mom, said she
was “shocked, absolutely shocked” to receive exchange offers
from Germany,
Great Britain, Switzerland and the Netherlands for her family’s
home in Cleveland.
When
she and her husband signed up on a swap site in 2004, they thought
they might get offers from people looking for a place to stay
during brief treatment at the nearby cardiac clinic. Instead,
they got an offer from a Dutch family of roller coaster enthusiasts
who wanted to try the world‑class rides at Cedar Point
amusement park, which is about 65 miles west of Cleveland.
Sometimes
people are not looking for a vacation destination. They are
looking to go home, but not all the way home. Atwater said she
was contacted by a couple who lives in Japan but are originally
from the Tulsa area. The couple wanted to visit their families
but wanted to have some space to themselves.
Ed
Kushins, president of HomeExchange.com, the Web site featured
in last year’s film “The Holiday,” said people shouldn’t be
discouraged if they live in a place that is not generally thought
of as a vacation spot. They just might have to work a little
harder.
“You
have to be a little more proactive in sending out inquiries,”
Kushins said. “If you’re enthusiastic and descriptive about
the benefits and what there is to do where you live, you’re
going to get some responses.”
Atwater
said openness to different locations is helpful when looking
to try a home swap. She readily admits that the Tulsa area is
not a top vacation destination, but she also said she and her
husband agreed to go to a part of England they had never considered.
“I’m
not sure I would ever have chosen Lancaster to go to, but it
became a wonderful jumping off point for us. We went to Wales
and Ireland and Scotland,” she said.
Graham
Brandwood, the owner of the Lancaster home where the Atwaters
stayed in the summer of
2003, said he was originally looking for a place in the Rocky
Mountains when he was planning a special vacation for his daughters,
then 16 and 18, after they had each finished important exams
at school.
In
the end, though, Brandwood said he was happy with the way the
vacation ended up. Sperry, he said, is a small town and “not
even a very charming one,” but having already visited big American
cities like Chicago and New York, he was tickled when he walked
into a bank and the teller had never seen a traveler’s check
before.
“The
girls got to see a slice of normal America, the real America,”
Brandwood said. “And I think it was better for them.”
The
Atwaters even had horses for his riding‑fanatic daughters.
“Everybody
was happy,” Brandwood said. “Nancy and Mike were convinced they’d
had the best deal but I knew we'd had the best deal.”
The
relationship between the two families ended up including Atwater’s
sister, Sue, who befriended Brandwood and his daughters during
their stay and has visited them in England. When Brandwood returned
to the U.S. last year to hike the Appalachian Trail, she dropped
him off at the start and picked him up at the other end.
Those
unfamiliar with home swapping may think it strange that swappers
trust complete strangers to stay in their homes. But Shockey
and Atwater said that they are in touch with their fellow swappers
by phone and email for a few months and feel almost as if they
know them by the time the swap takes place.
Home
exchange Web sites generally do not have any official screening
process, but profiles often
reflect the number of swaps done so potential exchangers can
ask for references. In addition, there are usually sections
for comments– much like those for sellers and buyers on the
online auction site eBay.
Kushins’
site also provides template agreements that he encourages swappers
to sign to avoid misunderstandings about whether food can be
eaten and should be replaced, whether appliances can be used,
how to care for plants and pets, among other topics.
But
what about liability if someone falls down the stairs?
“In
general, your homeowner’s insurance covers anyone on a home
exchange, just as it would cover any other guest in your home,”
Kushins said. And the same goes for auto insurance, he said,
but it is a good idea to check with your insurer.
For
more information visit homelink.org
or homeexchange.com.