Prevent another tragedy

Sadly, another child is run over (The Desert Advocate, March 29), killed in the driveway of the family home. Tragically, an accident like this has two victims: the decedent and the driver‑often the parent.

My message is not to criticize, but empathize–and prevent it from occurring again.

I propose a solution. Not the on‑board backup camera that not only requires you own one but also be backing up. Today’s high‑profile vehicles can be equally deadly in both directions. Besides, you ve got something much better: You ve got “you!”

Before entering your vehicle, walk slowly down the passenger side first. Then loop around the rear, up the driver’s side and then check the front. You re looking for a tool, a toy, a half‑open car door or a fully closed garage door.

This walk‑around takes 15 seconds–time well spent. Practice this away from home, too, at the store or mall–looking for shoppers, an overturned cart, lane traffic and perhaps that older person walking by.

At home, if you re hosting a party and guests are leaving, you conduct the walk‑arounds as you thank them for coming.

Another benefit: If you and your partner are stepping out for the evening, walking down the passenger side and making the loop affords you the opportunity to open their door. Remember those days?

I propose if you perform this routine for just 30 days, you will have discovered at least one potential victim. That s a dozen a year, every year for the rest of your life.

Do yourself two favors: Make this a good habit, and tape this letter on your refrigerator–right next to your child s picture.

Tom Saxer, Carefree