Growing
up, no one seemed to offer sufficient spiritual or medical
explanations for his missing limbs, even though his
father was a Christian pastor and his mother a nurse.
Nick was bitter until age 12, when his mother showed
him a newspaper article about a man dealing with a severe
disability. It would change his outlook on life. Suddenly,
he wasn't the world's only struggling person.
Then,
at 15, he began believing in God. “Everything happens
for a reason,” he said of his disability. “God knew
my pain. I wanted somebody who knew my pain to say everything
was all right. That was something only He could do.
Now I see His great plan.”
With
only a 7‑inch left foot, he in time would learn
to type, write, walk, comb his hair, brush his teeth,
and take care of personal needs. And he would earn a
Bachelor of Commerce degree.
As
a public speaker today, he travels the globe. “It's
my passion,” he said. “One of my goals is to give people
hope.”
After
speaking at corporate functions, grown men have wept
on his shoulders because of his story. He receives scores
of e‑mails, some from teens who had been contemplating
suicide until they heard him speak at their school.
“I
used to hate it when people stared at me,” Nick said,
“but now I take it as an opportunity. I deliberately
make sure I smile back. One day this lady put her arms
around me and, without saying a word, started crying
on my shoulder. ‘Your smile just brightened my day,’
she said.”
He
is especially passionate about reaching people with
disabilities in third world countries. “I may not be
able to change the world,” Nick told me, “but by God’s
grace I want to change the world of thousands of people.”
For
more, see www.danieljvance.com
or www.lifewithoutlimbs.org.