“The
dancing is pretty fun,” said Jackie in a telephone
interview. “We dance around in a gym to different
music. Sometimes the music is country, sometimes
‘60s or ‘80s music, or just rock ‘n’ roll. My favorite
is country music. I’m country all the way. I like
Clay Walker, Tim McGraw, Faith Hill, and Brooks
and Dunn.”
Up
to 30 people attend each dance at a local community
center. A dance club like this would be fairly easy
to start anywhere and an excellent way for some
people with disabilities to have fun and build relationships
in a safe environment. Almost half those kicking
up their heels in Mankato have an attendant with
them.
“I’ve
met lots of friends there,” said 25‑year‑old
Jackie, who has someone helping her nightly to make
menus and cook, as well as drive her to dances and
other leisure recreation. A mobility van takes her
to work as a cleaning assistant
for a physical therapy practice. As another leisure
activity, Jackie has taken community education classes
in arts and crafts, cooking, and blanket making.
She
lives by herself in order to be more independent
of her mother and father, who live in a smaller
city 25 miles away. “It’s more fun living by myself
because I get to do what I want,” she said.
The
founder of this dance club, Sanda Noy, based it
on one she had read about in Coon Rapids, Minn.
Her
son with a disability, Brad, “bounces off the walls
and anything in between, including people” when
dancing, she said. But at the club he can dance
the way he wants and, like everyone else, brings
his own music to play. Brad said he enjoys the easy
listening music of Jack Johnson.