BY
THE WAY
Ode
to the world serious
STEVE
GILBERTSON
Watching
Cleveland in the playoffs is a huge memory jolt. In a story
I’ve recorded in this column previously, my 10‑year‑old
son and I had the privilege of attending a World Series game
there in 1997.
It
was a gift from Major League Baseball–a prize I won when my
wife entered me into a
contest while we attended an Arizona Fall League game in Scottsdale.
All I had to do was
throw a strike between innings of a game. It took me two tries,
but I did it, and three days later we boarded a plane for
Cleveland.
As
you might imagine, it was the experience of a lifetime.
Die‑hard
fans may recall that it was the coldest World Series game
in history, even boasting a
light skiff of snow. Despite the last‑minute purchase
of a blanket in Cleveland, we were embarrassingly unprepared
for the cold weather. The kind gentleman next to us bought
my son a cup of hot chocolate.
Cleveland
fans went home happy with a convincing victory. Bryan Anderson
and Matt Williams, soon to join the fledgling Diamondbacks
franchise, both played prominent roles in the game.
We
had a great time on that trip. As you might imagine, we experienced
it somewhat differently from one another.
For
him, there were no worries, only the wonder and joy of attending
the biggest game of the year with his dad. Everything caught
his attention: falling snowflakes, roaring crowd, thrilling
ballgame, cool train rides, smoky hot chocolate–you name it,
he enjoyed it.
For
me, although I enjoyed the experience immensely, there was
an added level of pressure about which he had no clue. I had
been given very little instruction by Major League Baseball.
I was to take a train to the team hotel, ask for tickets,
get to the ballpark and find my way to a different hotel following
the game.
A
flood of questions formed the background noise to my experience.
“Where do I go to find tickets at the hotel? What if my name
is not listed?
How
will we get to the ballpark from there? How will I find the
hotel we’re staying at? We’re going to freeze! Where can I
find a blanket?”
I
was extremely careful to keep these issues out of my son’s
purview. He was a 10‑year‑old kid going to Cleveland
to watch a World Series game with his dad. Why should he fret?
His dad was right next to him. He’d take care of things.
In
the 10 years since that memorable trip, I have reflected about
it as a parable for my own relationship with God. All too
often I behave more like the father than the son as I navigate
my way through life. My way is filled with difficult decisions,
uncertain futures, complicated connections. What if I make
a bad decision? How will I fix things when I do?
How
much better it would be if I remembered that I am the son,
not the father. My Father will keep me out of harm’s way.
He’ll make sure I get to where I need to be. If I make a mistake,
he’’ll work things out. As long as I am with him, why worry?
One
day Jesus’ disciples asked him, “Who is the greatest in the
kingdom of heaven?” I wonder what kind of answer they were
expecting. Maybe they thought one of them would be commended
for their faith.
Or
perhaps there was a well‑known teacher or holy man or
historical figure who had caught their fancy. Who knows what
they thought?
Imagine
their surprise when Jesus did this: He called a little child
and had him stand among them. (Jesus had a flair for the dramatic.)
“Whoever humbles himself like this child,” he said, “is the
greatest in the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:4).